Man's + Women's Network
In the name of God the Merciful
Peace and mercy of God be upon you ....
Today Bnteklm on the subject of a valuable truth is one of the biggest reasons for the incompatibility between the couple ..
Though the understanding of the subject in the right way .. I expect the low rate of marital problems greatly ..
Namely
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Some wives think that her husband has changed his feelings towards them or vice versa, and the truth is that the main reason is that man needs to act according to the nature of man and women need to act according to its nature as a woman, it is wrong to deny this one over the other right - as we deny our children to act like children, or deny the elderly to act as adults age, or deny the leaders to act as leaders - often happens that one of us unable to continue in the representation of hypocrisy for so long, it is attributable to act on nature, and not understanding the other party into thinking he spoke of changing the problem.
Records confirm that the differences between men and women, unlike in the origin of ethics, and that can not be cured, but must be dealt with after each party to understand the properties of the other party, and his motives for his behavior that seem bizarre and unjustified. And finds that his theories are true in general, and it applies in most cases not related to this community and culture and education and religion, but refers only to the exceptions contained.
Mind of man boxes, and the woman's mind Network
This is the fundamental difference between them, a component of the mind of man Stadiq sealed, and non-mixed. There is the trunk, the White Fund Fund Fund and the parents work and children and Fund Fund Fund and the Friends coffee shop ........... Etc 
If a man wants something he goes to this fund and opens it and focuses ... And when it is in this box, it does not see anything outside it. When he has finished close it tightly and then proceeded to open another fund and so on.
This is what explains that when a man in his work, it does not worry so much about what his wife is saying what happened to the children, and if he was repairing his car is less concerned with what is happening to his relatives, and when watching a football match is not much concerned that eating on the fire burning, or Agent Phone standing at the door several minutes waiting for permission to enter ..
The woman's mind is something else: It is a set of points intersecting and related networking all at the same time and always active .. Each point related to all other points such as a page full of links on the Internet.
And therefore, can cook, a nurse and small talk on the phone and watch the series at one time. It was impossible for men - often - to do so ..
They can also move around from case to case quickly, accurately and without too much damage, and this seems clear in her talk about what is done by the neighbor and she said to her mother-boys school and the level of color and specifications of the dress she is Stertdi at a party tomorrow and its view in the final episode of the series and the number of eggs in cake in a phone call one, or perhaps in one sentence smoothly as possible, without any mental fatigue, which is not able to do more men and professional training.
The network is the most dangerous micro complexity always work, do not stop working even during sleep, so we find the dreams of women are more detailed than the dreams of men ..
Exciting men in boxes that he had a fund name: "box Allaci", it can open this fund and then Echtqy the mentally even if it remains present body and behavior.
A man can open the TV and stay hours in front of him turns the channels in Blaha, which in fact does not make anything. Can do the same thing before the Internet. Can go to catch and put the hook in the water for several hours and then return as he went, ask him why his wife hunt says: nothing because he did not hunt, he made nothing ..
University of Pennsylvania in a recent study proved this fact filming activity in the brain, it can be for a man to spend hours does not make almost nothing, and the image of women has demonstrated brain activity and the movement is not interrupted
The problem comes when he spoke of her husband, the wife retina ark is not answered, is to talk to the center Tflha many other things, he does not understand this because it
- As a man - understand that if we are talking, we have to enter the fund speech they did not do. And disaster strikes when it is time to talk in which the man in a box Allaci. He then did not hear a single word of what she said even if it is unanswered.
All too often, they divided the wife said to her husband news or information, and divides is also the first time he heard such a thing, and both approved. Because it is boxes of a network.
In fact, women can not enter the Fund Allaci with men.
It will become something once they enter .. This is first and, secondly, it will start once they enter the questions: What are you doing my love, Do you want to help, Is this the best, what is this thing, how did this happen ... And begs the men and women sent off .. He knows that if it will not remain silent, knowing that they promised to silence Vaftrtha prevented them from fulfilling it.
In cases of stress and stress, prefer men to enter the Fund Allaci, while women select the network to operate in the matter speaks to anyone and as long as possible. If the woman did not talk about what was causing her stress and tension of the brain that can explode
And women when you talk with her husband Aspetha concerning the reasons for not asking men advice or opinion, is wrong if a man took the initiative to provide them, all women requested the man to shut up and listen and listen and listen .... Only.
Ark simple men and women networking vehicle. And needs of men ark specific and simple as possible and mostly physical focus is to fill the empty things and more ...
The networking needs of women are difficult to identify a vehicle which is variable. May be discouraged one word, do not satisfy less valuable than a decade in again .. In both cases, what Ordaha not call in the contract but the situation in which the formulation of the floor and provision of the contract ..
And men by nature are not ready for a lot of this complex transactions that are not based on the logic, and women can not identify clearly their requests to respond to the man directly .. This exhausts the man, not satisfied with women.
Ark man does not keep only the smallest details in its funds, and if I told him about something he is looking for him earlier in the funds, if the talk, for example, a trip on holiday, it is often hidden in the corner of the Fund work, it does not find it will never be found. . Most women either retinal what passes on its network, the memory retains a copy of it and they are called to it easily on the surface and not in the funds ..
According to an analysis by Mr. Mark, the man ark is designed to introduce, and women's network is determined to tender. So when women ask men anything forget it, because it is not used to be given, but to take back and compete, take in the action, taking on the road, taking in the restaurant .... While women used to give, and without this instinct, I could care of its own.
If you ask women something man, the first response that comes to mind: Why not do it yourself. Wife, and she thinks that her husband did not meet the request because he wanted to embarrass them or wants to show superiority or want to emphasize their need him or revenge or neglected ... Is because they feel a personal vehicle, which did not respond to her request because he forgot it, which he forgot because he is a simple but that when it requested that the request was within the Fund Allaci he was unable to or received in the appropriate box wiping out the application, or that the Fund has not entered into the man opens it for a long time .
Transferee: maram
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